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“Daddy Come and Get Me”

Lyrics and Vocals: American singer-songwriter, actress, and businesswoman, the late
great Dolly Rebecca Parton Dean (née Parton) [1946 – 2026].

Late Dolly Rebecca Parton.

Listening to Dolly Parton’s “Daddy Come and Get Me” today, I find myself thinking of Ireland’s unmarried mothers and their children.
While, Dolly’s lyrics tell a slightly different story, its plea for someone to come, to listen, to bring a frightened woman home has a painful resonance here.
I think of women who needed kindness and support, and instead encountered shame and separation. I think of mothers whose children were taken for adoption, some sent across the sea.
I think of the years spent wondering, searching and grieving for someone still alive. Survivor testimony gathered by the Clann Project asks us to face that suffering with honesty.

“Daddy Come and Get Me”

“Daddy Come and Get Me”

In this mental institution, lookin’ out through these iron bars,
How could he put me in here, how could he go that far.
Yes I need help but not this kind, he didn’t love me from the start,
But it’s not my mind that’s broken, it’s my heart.
Oh Daddy come and get me and take me home with you.
I’m depending on you Daddy, there’s nothing I can do,
And you said that I could come to you if I ever was in need,
But Daddy I can’t come to you, you’ll have to come to me.
When he said he loved another, I was crazy with jealousy,
That’s ’cause I was crazy over him and I couldn’t stand to set him free,
And I couldn’t stand to lose him and I cried and cried for days,
And he said that I was crazy, but he just put me in here to get me out of his way.
Daddy come and get me,
Oh Daddy come and get me, and take me home with you.
I’m depending on you Daddy ’cause there’s nothing else I can do,
And you said that I could come to you if I ever was in need,
But Daddy I can’t come to you, you’ll have to come to me.
Oh Daddy, come and get me.

END.

I think also today, of the children in the protestant orphanage “The Bird’s Nest”, also the children in “St Patrick’s” on the Navan Road, “Madonna House” and “Cottage Home” who were included, indeed used, in vaccine trials.
Their participation is well documented; while profound questions about consent still remain.
Behind those institutional names were small children, entirely dependent on the adults entrusted with their care.
Their documented history deserves to be forever remembered.

There is something especially sorrowful about hearing this song on a Sunday, a day associated with faith, family and belonging, while remembering those who were denied the compassion that should have accompanied their plight..
Church and State had responsibilities towards them. So did the communities around them.

I am deeply sorry for the cruelty they endured, for the protection that failed them, and for every year in which their voices went unheard. No expression of regret can restore a childhood or return the years a mother and child lost together.
However remembrance must include listening, granting access to the truth and total accountability.

Today, I share the above song with tenderness towards those mothers, the children they lost, and the adults those children eventually became.

They deserved to be heard. They deserved protection. They deserved to know that they mattered.

Paper Never Refused Ink – The River Suir Needs Clear Answers and Action

“Paper never refused ink,” as the old saying goes. Publication alone does not establish accuracy; public statements should be supported by clear information and visible results. I refer of course to a press release by Refresh Thurles Tidy Towns and published HERE by the Tipperary Star local newspaper.

Refresh Thurles Tidy Towns’ concern about the River Suir is, at last, indeed to be welcomed. However, the accompanying photographs show substantial litter; numerous discarded drinks bottles, food wrappers, cartons and other rubbish among the trees and along the bank, together with shopping trolleys submerged beneath branches; today evidenced remaining untouched for almost 2 years.

One supermarket trolley overlooked in River Suir since 2025.

These currently submerged trolleys present another practical question; when were they first reported, who is responsible for arranging their safe removal, and when will that happen? Despite the water being shallow, nobody should expect volunteers to enter the river to retrieve them, but residents deserve a clear answer about who will act.


Litter overlooked in Thurles town park since 2025

The group reports regular litter picks and the recent collection of eight bags of rubbish. That work deserves acknowledgement. Nevertheless, the conditions pictured raise a fair question: when were these particular areas last cleaned, and are they included in the regular litter-picking route?

There is also a question about the photograph accompanying this week recent Tipperary Star report. [See HERE] My understanding is that it previously appeared on Refresh Thurles’ Facebook page on 25th April 2026. If it is an older photograph, its date should be made clear, so readers of local press do not mistake it for evidence of this current week’s activity.

Uncollected litter dumped between 2025/26, due to absence of litter bins.

My concern is that litter problems here, have persisted since the 2025 music festival. These photographs can prove that no cleaning has occurred since then, and they do show places that need immediate attention. If access or safety difficulties prevent volunteers from collecting this rubbish, have those locations been reported to the council, and what response has been received?

The timing of the press statement also merits clarification. Has Refresh Thurles previously raised these concerns publicly or in writing with the relevant authorities? If so, when, and with what outcome?

Please do take the time to fully view the video hereunder, to fully understand what must be observed as Ireland’s shame.

Why Ireland’s Rivers Are Dying?

Finally, the published statement’s reference to installing wildlife information boards needs clarification. My understanding is that Thurles Municipal District Council installed the signage. Could the respective roles in commissioning, funding, designing and installing the boards be explained, so everyone’s contribution is accurately acknowledged?

Uncollected riverbank litter since August 12th, 2026, still visible this wet morning.

These are reasonable questions, not a dismissal of voluntary effort. Those who discard rubbish bear responsibility for their behaviour, and volunteers deserve thanks for the work they do.

But appreciation and accountability can and must sit together. What matters now is an accurate account of the work completed, a clear allocation of responsibility and dates for addressing the problems shown in above accompanying pictures shown here and with no remedial action taken for months.

Some newspapers are happy to publish public relations (PR) material from politicians and other organisations, without verifying the facts. The favourable accounts they present are often far removed from the truth.

Paper may never refuse ink. The River Suir, at this stage, needs more than words.

Update -Alcohol Containers Fast Becoming New Litter Menace In Thurles & Tipperary.

When Plastic And Aluminium Become One Recycling Problem.

I want to sincerely thank Minister of State Mr Alan Dillon TD (through his Private Secretary Ms Michaela Sullivan), for taking the time to provide such a detailed and informative response. Unfortunately, many TDs these days fail to reply to constituents’ questions at all, so a meaningful response deserves to be publicly acknowledged.

We recently wrote to Mr Dillon TD regarding the fact that certain containers are fast becoming the new litter menace in Thurles and around the Irish countryside; increasingly found discarded on streets, roadsides and in other public spaces.

Although Ireland’s Deposit Return Scheme covers PET* bottles and aluminium or steel cans from 150ml to 3 litres, the Department has confirmed that this container is excluded because it is considered hybrid packaging, owing to its high aluminium-to-PET ratio.

The photograph below shows a 200ml BuzzBallz container made from a combination of plastic and aluminium.

Ireland’s new litter menace – same rejected by Reverse Vending Machines, since no Re-turn logo.

* PET stands for polyethylene terephthalate, a widely used plastic. It is a lightweight, durable plastic commonly used to make drinks bottles and is normally identified by the number 1 recycling symbol.

That creates a serious problem; the container may contaminate the aluminium recycling stream, while its metal content could also damage equipment used to process plastic. In other words, it is designed in a way that makes effective recycling extremely difficult.

The new EU Packaging and Packaging Waste Regulation is intended to address packaging like this. It requires packaging placed on the EU market to be recyclable, with reconcilability requirements beginning in 2030. Hopefully, this will bring an end to poorly designed hybrid containers that fall outside the deposit scheme and are too easily discarded on our streets and in our countryside.

The Minister’s office also explained that Re-turn works with local authorities, the LGMA and the Waste Enforcement Regional Lead Authorities to identify and investigate breaches of the Deposit Return Scheme rules. According to the Department, hundreds of inspections have taken place since the transition period ended, and 80% of the non-compliant stakeholders identified are now compliant or working towards compliance. Reports from members of the public remain an important part of that enforcement effort.

However, the wider question remains; why should any drinks container be allowed onto the Irish market, if it cannot be efficiently collected and recycled?

Packaging should be designed for a circular economy from the beginning, not become someone else’s environmental problem at the end.

Memory Café, Cashel Library, Co. Tipperary

Ms Maura Barrett, Reports Today From Cashel Library:

A welcoming space for individuals with memory loss and their caregivers to connect, share experiences, enjoy engaging activities and talks. This memory café offers support and conversation in a relaxed environment.
No need to book just come along, leave us your name and number to be contacted each month when the café is taking place.
This month we welcome guest speaker Joshua Dowling from ALONE.

You can locate the Cashel Library building, situated on Friar Street, Lady’s Well, Cashel, Co. Tipperary, HERE. (G487+RX).

The café takes place from 11:00am-12.30pm

Ireland’s Clocks To Go Back Earlier On Sunday, 25th October 2026

As the winter months draw closer, clocks across Ireland will go back by one hour at 2am on Sunday, 25th October 2026. When the clocks reach 2:00am, they will return to 1:00am, giving many people an extra hour in bed.

Last year’s clock change took place on October 26th. Although the date falls one day earlier in 2026, the established rule has not changed: the clocks go back on the final Sunday of October each year.

Here, in the Republic of Ireland, the change marks the end of Irish Standard Time and the return to Greenwich Mean Time for the winter.
Northern Ireland will make the same change, moving from British Summer Time to Greenwich Mean Time.

Smartphones, computers and many other connected devices should update automatically. However, people should remember to adjust watches, alarm clocks, car displays and household appliances that do not change by themselves.

The change will bring more daylight in the mornings, but evenings will become darker earlier.